Anonymous asked: So I'm dating this hot, smart, funny, amazing in every way guy, who pretty much has everything that I am looking for. His d* is ok-ish for my liking but he lacks some serious skills in sex. We talked about it, helping each other out to what we like. It's been a month like, and it still gets on my nerves. It's not like I don't cum, I do, but I find myself thinking about it during sex rather than just enjoy it, you know? Any ideas on that? I like him a lot but does it worth it?
Skills and chemistry are very different things, and it’s important to understand the difference. Skills can be taught, chemistry needs to be there from the beginning. Does he turn you on? Are you excited to hook up with him? Then be patient. It’s only been a month, and with your guidance, he could make you very happy. (Though how wonderful for you that even mediocre sex makes you orgasm - rare feat!)
When I was making out with 81, I was thinking about my taxes. It wasn’t because he was a terrible kisser, it’s because there was no chemistry. He was amazing, but if that heat isn’t there, then you need to decide what’s more important to you.
