Anonymous asked: how many people have you had sex with? do you think that every time you have sex with a new partner sex is less special the more partners you have or is the number of partners you have and your connection with each isolated and seperate?
Sex is like wine.
When you have your first glass, you may not like it or you may immediately love it. You may decide to never drink anything else. If you stick with the same bottle your whole life, there will be days you find it delicious, days you’re tired of it, days it pairs terribly with your meal, days when you’re dying for it.
But say you choose to become a wine connoisseur… you become skilled at identifying notes, regions, vintages, you develop a preference, but that doesn’t mean that each wine isn’t as unique and amazing to you as all the wines you tried before.
What I’m saying is that sex is awesome. What matters is not how many partners you have, but how you handle each situation. You throw back glass after glass of wine and all you’ll associate that sweet nectar with is a hangover, but if you sip every wine… if you take your time with it, pair it well, and enjoy its uniqueness, then each glass will be remarkable and memorable in its own way.
