Anonymous asked: I'm a college guy and I kind of have this girl that likes me (whom I like back a lot) so we usually end up hooking up. However, she continuously holds all my bad decisions against me (past lays) when we talk about the possibility of exclusivity. How do I get her past this?
It’s hard to advise without having a little more information, but here are my educated guesses - this girl is either:
1) grossed out (but it’s unlikely she’d be jumping in the pool every time if she thought it was that dirty)
2) very jealous (but jealous girls are all about the Boyfriend Stamp)
3) worried you’ll continue acting like this or
4) is preserving her freedom with a backhanded strategy
If your gut is telling you 2 or 4, see a little less of her. Don’t hook up next time (I know, difficult, but you asked for the advice.) You need to be less available. Make a power play to see if she really wants you.
Per usual, you can email me if you think more details would help. Godspeed, my friend.
